LGBT and trying to come out to your folks? Try it anonymously

How it works

As someone who identifies best as Bisexual, I tried out the app to understand if this is a plausible avenue for me.

Here's a step-by-step guide:

Go to youreaccepted.com.au and you'll find yourself staring at this page.

Approve it on Facebook. Again, it's anonymous.

Ask for support. Write whatever you've always wanted to say.

It's done. Hit next.

Sync your Gmail so that all your contacts can be notified that a friend of theirs is looking for help.

Just wait it out. You're Accepted also reaches out into its internal network so that you can feel good about the step you've taken while you wait to hear from loved ones.

I got some 10 messages in a couple of hours. Let's see where this goes.

But what if there's no support?

The You're Accepted system is such that all messages that come in response to yours are moderated, so if I were to not receive any replies (be kind, my friends) or worse, if the replies were hateful messages, the app will ensure I do not receive them.

Instead, I get pulled into the Minus 18 network of other young LGBT people out there, which is a wide support network. So, there's really nothing to lose.

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According to the makers of You're Accepted, they "found people weren't getting enough support because friends and family simply didn't realise it was required."

"You're Accepted is here to tackle hateful online discrimination against LGBTI youth. Through positive social support provided by friends and family we can do this together, because after all no one should live in fear of simply being who they are - everyone should be accepted," their About page reads.

How did the idea come about?

Minus18 CEO Micah Scott is out now, but a few years ago, he too grappled with the anxiety that comes with 'coming out'.

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"If I had had this app, it would have saved me from negative perception I had about myself and a lot of turmoil," he told Star Observer.

"I could've prevented so many years of anxiety. I could've come out earlier," he added.

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