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Hum Zindagi Ko Apni Kahan Tak Sambhalte - Amitabh Bachchan writes an emotional blog for friend-actor Shashi Kapoor

Speed News Desk | Updated on: 5 December 2017, 10:20 IST
Hum Zindagi Ko Apni Kahan Tak Sambhalte - Amitabh Bachchan writes an emotional blog for friend-actor Shashi Kapoor

Bollywood superstars Amitabh Bachchan and Shashi Kapoor's friendship is very much famous in the films, and even many times Big B himself has said that Shashi Kapoor was like his brother. It is a proof of their beautiful friendship that they both have worked in several films and most of the times their bond was a massive hit at the box office.

One of the conversations between the duo in the Yash Chopra's famous film Deewar became the iconic scene of Indian cinema. Both the legendary actors worked together in 16 films and their films like Deewar, Kabhi Kabhie, Trishul, Kaala Patthar, Suhaag and others were hit.

Now when Big B has lost his close friend and co-actor Shashi Kapoor, so in this emotional time, the Deewar star has written an emotional blog for his co-star Shashi Kapoor.

Big B shared the blog through his tweet and one painting of the superstar.

Amitabh Bachchan blog reads:


“हम ज़िंदगी को अपनी कहाँ तक सम्भालते

इस क़ीमती किताब का काग़ज़ ख़राब था “

~ rumi jafri


Standing elegantly without a care in the world, I saw him standing by a Mercedes Sports car, a convertible, a smart trimmed beard and moustache, adorning involuntarily, the face of this incredibly handsome man. It was a picture that filled almost an entire page of a magazine.

Shashi Kapoor … son of Prithviraj Kapoor, younger brother to Raj Kapoor and Shammi Kapoor, making a debut in a forthcoming film, is what the caption read ..

And I said to myself, as very uncertain thoughts raced through my mind of wanting to become a film actor, that, with men like him around, I stood no chance at all .. 

1969, and those early years of efforts to join the Industry were also the times when there was a close proximity, to the area of an atmosphere, that swivelled around this most attractive man. On and off, common friends in the Industry, which I was just getting acquainted with, would introduce me to him at select social gatherings ..

“ Shashi Kapoor !” was what one heard as he extended a warm soft hand out to you in introduction ; that devastating smile complimenting the twinkle in his eyes. He needn’t have done so. Every one knew him. But this was his infectious humble self. When he spoke, there was a mischievous, gentle, almost inaudible, delicate, yodel, in his voice - most endearing and comforting to the one he was introduced to. The self introduction habit, was a gem. The one being introduced to, was, quite obviously, prompted to say his or her name as well, when they heard his. It was a remarkable tool to come to know the other persons name .. and .. if and when there was to be another meeting after many forgettable years, the same technology was most helpful in remembering the other persons name, in case you had forgotten it .. !!

I must admit .. it was a technology that remained with me as a learning, assisting me in using it during those uncomfortable times, when out of the blue someone would come out to you and address himself as a long lost buddy , with a :

“remember me ! we last met 6 years ago at the crossing of Kemps Corner, as you drove past and waved to me” !!!

My mind is warning me .. ‘of course you don’t, how could you possibly’ .. ‘stick that hand out ala Shashi Kapoor and act friendly..’

I obey ..

‘yes of course I do’ .. I say .. looking recognisably lost .. ( sticking hand out ) .. Amitabh Bachchan ..!!

And he would assure me with his .. and Kemp’s Corner and waving by, passing travelling vehicle, suddenly all come flashing by .. I am saved .. and he goes away with some rather impressionable opinions about me ..

The next .. was his semi curly hair on head, falling carelessly over his forehead and ears, not quite covering it .. and my upper story mumbled again : ‘hey ! maybe you should think of covering your ears as well ..’ … and off I went to Hakim the hair dresser at Taj Hotel with my plan .. and executed, it remained till date ..

What followed .. is a documentation of very intimate association, personal exigencies .. collective professional camaraderie .. ending in family bindings ..

He had been ailing .. somewhere he had let himself go after the passing away of his dear wife Jennifer .. I had visited him on occasion in Hospital during some of the times he had been hospitalised earlier .. but I never went to see him again .. I would never have .. I never ever wanted to see this beautiful friend and ‘samdhi’ in the state I saw him in hospital ..

…. and I did not today, when they informed me that he had gone …

The words of the ‘sher’ at the opening came to me minutes after Rumi Jafri, eminent writer in our film industry, sent them to me on learning of his death ..

“how long could I have preserved this exquisite and expensive book of life ; the pages of the book were damaged ..”

He fondly addressed me as ‘babbua’ .. and with him have gone many incredible unread chapters of his and my life .. 

-Amitabh Bachchan


You can imagine the bond of both the superstars as their success is related to each other and most of the time they worked as brothers on screen. While Jai-Veeru is the famous Jodi of cinema, but in real life, Amitabh-Shashi's Jodi is also much famous.

First published: 5 December 2017, 10:18 IST